The Ways We Love: A Developmental Approach to Treating CouplesGuilford Press, 28. 1. 2004 - 356 strán (strany) This volume delineates a developmental theory of love relationships that provides a comprehensive approach to treating couples. Drawing on her 30 years of clinical experience, Sheila A. Sharpe conceptualizes marriage and other committed partnerships as comprising multiple patterns of relating that develop over time in a parallel, though interconnected, fashion. Seven universal patterns of intimate relating are identified: nurturing, merging, idealizing, devaluing, controlling, competing for superiority, and competing in love triangles. Sharpe demonstrates how these patterns originate in a person's early experience, are reworked in different ways throughout life, and express everyone's basic needs for both connection and separateness. Supplying vital insights and tools for therapeutic work, the volume offers the clinician a multifaceted perspective on how couple relationships grow and what happens when their growth becomes derailed. |
Vyhľadávanie v obsahu knihy
Výsledky 1 - 5 z 71.
Strana xi
... MERGING 5. Closeness as Oneness 97 6. The Development of Merging : Common Treatment Problems 100 IDEALIZING 7. The Bedrock of Passion 8. The Development of Idealizing : 125 128 Common Treatment Problems 9. The Adoring Parent and the ...
... MERGING 5. Closeness as Oneness 97 6. The Development of Merging : Common Treatment Problems 100 IDEALIZING 7. The Bedrock of Passion 8. The Development of Idealizing : 125 128 Common Treatment Problems 9. The Adoring Parent and the ...
Strana 2
... merging , idealizing , devalu- ing , controlling , competing for superiority , and competing in love trian- gles . While other relational patterns exist , these are the most fundamen- tal . Each of these patterns has its own ...
... merging , idealizing , devalu- ing , controlling , competing for superiority , and competing in love trian- gles . While other relational patterns exist , these are the most fundamen- tal . Each of these patterns has its own ...
Strana 3
... merge , at times , to feel fundamentally connected and part of a greater whole . We need to idealize our partners and to be idealized to stay attracted and to feel cherished . We need to devalue at times of seri- ous disappointment in ...
... merge , at times , to feel fundamentally connected and part of a greater whole . We need to idealize our partners and to be idealized to stay attracted and to feel cherished . We need to devalue at times of seri- ous disappointment in ...
Strana 5
... merging are con- sidered to be universal and normal ways couples relate . These essential features of romantic love are fundamental to feeling deeply and empathically connected . However , if such patterns continue to dominate a ...
... merging are con- sidered to be universal and normal ways couples relate . These essential features of romantic love are fundamental to feeling deeply and empathically connected . However , if such patterns continue to dominate a ...
Strana 7
... merging , idealizing , and nurturing will respond favorably to an approach that explores the adaptive and defensive needs to sustain these modes . However , such a couple will likely not respond to initial interven- tions that promote ...
... merging , idealizing , and nurturing will respond favorably to an approach that explores the adaptive and defensive needs to sustain these modes . However , such a couple will likely not respond to initial interven- tions that promote ...
Obsah
The Foundation of Loving | 15 |
Cultural Myths and Marital Malnourishment | 30 |
The Development of Nurturing Common Treatment Problems | 37 |
The Caretaker and the Needful Child A Nurturing Collusion | 73 |
Merging | 95 |
Closeness as Oneness | 97 |
The Development of Merging Common Treatment Problems | 100 |
Idealizing | 123 |
The Development of Devaluing Common Treatment Problems | 201 |
The Judgmental Parent and the Guilty Child A Blaming Collusion | 220 |
Controlling | 243 |
Whos in Charge? | 245 |
The Development of Controlling Common Treatment Problems | 255 |
Competing | 277 |
Whos better and Vying for Love | 279 |
Winning Losing and Gender | 282 |
The Bedrock of Passion | 125 |
The Development of Idealizing Common Treatment Problems | 128 |
The Adoring Parent and the Adorable Child An Idealizing Collusion | 161 |
Patterns of Separateness | 193 |
Devaluing | 195 |
Youre No Good | 197 |
Competing for Superiority Development and Common Treatment Problems | 298 |
Competing in Love Triangles Development and Common Treatment Problems | 316 |
Love Triangles in Couple Therapy | 333 |
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The Ways We Love: A Developmental Approach to Treating Couples Sheila A. Sharpe Obmedzený náhľad - 2004 |
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