The Ways We Love: A Developmental Approach to Treating CouplesGuilford Press, 28. 1. 2004 - 356 strán (strany) This volume delineates a developmental theory of love relationships that provides a comprehensive approach to treating couples. Drawing on her 30 years of clinical experience, Sheila A. Sharpe conceptualizes marriage and other committed partnerships as comprising multiple patterns of relating that develop over time in a parallel, though interconnected, fashion. Seven universal patterns of intimate relating are identified: nurturing, merging, idealizing, devaluing, controlling, competing for superiority, and competing in love triangles. Sharpe demonstrates how these patterns originate in a person's early experience, are reworked in different ways throughout life, and express everyone's basic needs for both connection and separateness. Supplying vital insights and tools for therapeutic work, the volume offers the clinician a multifaceted perspective on how couple relationships grow and what happens when their growth becomes derailed. |
Vyhľadávanie v obsahu knihy
Výsledky 1 - 5 z 81.
Strana ii
... Therapy with Multi - Stressed Families : From Old Problems to New Futures William C. Madsen Couple Therapy for Infertility Ronny Diamond , David Kezur , Mimi Meyers , Constance N. Scharf , and Margot Weinshel Short - Term Couple Therapy ...
... Therapy with Multi - Stressed Families : From Old Problems to New Futures William C. Madsen Couple Therapy for Infertility Ronny Diamond , David Kezur , Mimi Meyers , Constance N. Scharf , and Margot Weinshel Short - Term Couple Therapy ...
Strana viii
... therapy ) of the American Psychoanalytic Asso- ciation , were particularly important in the initial development of ... therapist and writer . It is a pleasure to also thank Judith Siegel and Marion Solomon , both exceptional clinicians ...
... therapy ) of the American Psychoanalytic Asso- ciation , were particularly important in the initial development of ... therapist and writer . It is a pleasure to also thank Judith Siegel and Marion Solomon , both exceptional clinicians ...
Strana 5
... therapists view a couple's wish to communicate in this fashion as a symptom of pathological fusion , symbiosis , or ... therapist . Many try to give up mind reading for the thera- pist's sake , but this kind of compliance in sessions ...
... therapists view a couple's wish to communicate in this fashion as a symptom of pathological fusion , symbiosis , or ... therapist . Many try to give up mind reading for the thera- pist's sake , but this kind of compliance in sessions ...
Strana 6
... therapist can more readily identify which pattern ( s ) is causing difficulty for a couple and at what point in this development the partners have become derailed , either temporarily or more permanently . This assessment is then ...
... therapist can more readily identify which pattern ( s ) is causing difficulty for a couple and at what point in this development the partners have become derailed , either temporarily or more permanently . This assessment is then ...
Strana 7
... therapist may be induced to idealize the couple in return . Awareness of this likelihood can help the therapist to use such an enactment productively and forestall a potential stalemate in treatment . My criteria for the optimal or ...
... therapist may be induced to idealize the couple in return . Awareness of this likelihood can help the therapist to use such an enactment productively and forestall a potential stalemate in treatment . My criteria for the optimal or ...
Obsah
The Foundation of Loving | 15 |
Cultural Myths and Marital Malnourishment | 30 |
The Development of Nurturing Common Treatment Problems | 37 |
The Caretaker and the Needful Child A Nurturing Collusion | 73 |
Merging | 95 |
Closeness as Oneness | 97 |
The Development of Merging Common Treatment Problems | 100 |
Idealizing | 123 |
The Development of Devaluing Common Treatment Problems | 201 |
The Judgmental Parent and the Guilty Child A Blaming Collusion | 220 |
Controlling | 243 |
Whos in Charge? | 245 |
The Development of Controlling Common Treatment Problems | 255 |
Competing | 277 |
Whos better and Vying for Love | 279 |
Winning Losing and Gender | 282 |
The Bedrock of Passion | 125 |
The Development of Idealizing Common Treatment Problems | 128 |
The Adoring Parent and the Adorable Child An Idealizing Collusion | 161 |
Patterns of Separateness | 193 |
Devaluing | 195 |
Youre No Good | 197 |
Competing for Superiority Development and Common Treatment Problems | 298 |
Competing in Love Triangles Development and Common Treatment Problems | 316 |
Love Triangles in Couple Therapy | 333 |
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The Ways We Love: A Developmental Approach to Treating Couples Sheila A. Sharpe Obmedzený náhľad - 2004 |
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